I saw the surgeon today for my follow up. He told me that still having pain and being tired three weeks out is normal.
He also said that I may never be able to eat the same way again. For some reason I am one of a small percentage whose digestive system changes after the surgery. I was already sensitive to milk. Now I cannot tolerate anything with milk or oil. Even meats are limited. I have decided to go vegan and see how that works out. Even the doctor said that it was a good idea.
So , apparently I have another few weeks to months of feeling bad and adjusting to my new digestive system.